Issue 7.11
An important part of any history is finding the humor and excitement in daily life. Dating and courtship experiences certainly can add both of these qualities. Only looking back can you see the amusing aspect of those long ago teenage days when you were so seriously seeking the one and only “perfect” companion. Some of you may still be single or newly single through divorce or death, but you’ll have to agree that those dating days were certainly hysterical when viewed from the prospective of a few decades later, even though they seemed downright traumatic at the time.
I realized from writing my own history that I focused much of my youthful energy on finding my “Prince Charming” when I should have enjoyed the dating experiences more with the fellows I met along the way. A poem I wrote explains: Finding Your One and Only–The fairy tales make it sound so easy/ Just kiss the frog––he becomes a charming prince/ Off you ride into the beautiful sunset together/ and live happily ever after…sounds like a cinch.// Life, you’ll find has other plans for you/ Even after you’ve married your prince/ sometimes––he mutates back into a frog/ and his misbehavior makes you wince// What’s a princess to do, but leave him?/ Set out on a new journey to find another/ Perhaps a horny toad or lizard would do/ But then you may think why even bother?// The second time around is more difficult/ Now, you may carry extra baggage/ A dependent child or two, if you’re lucky/ Plus emotional garbage to add to the marriage// Your new partner may bring his own luggage/ Whether he’s divorced, widowed or just single/ So consider your good luck if you’ve found/ Another one and only to kiss and then…gamble//
For those who are still single or never married, you may look longingly at your married friends’ lives but until you’ve walked in their shoes, you have no idea what challenges they face. Analyze your own married state whether widowed, divorced or never married. How have you coped with your circumstances? How have your hopes, dreams and expectations changed during your lifetime?
If choosing between crying and laughing at your life story, they both have their place. Usually you cry at the time, but you later may find yourself laughing at the circumstances or your naivety, but always there is a lesson to be learned and shared. Next week dealing with Negative Topics.
Lin Floyd will be teaching a Poetry WORDshop on writing free verse through Community Education starting Tues Feb 22 at 6 pm. Call 652-7675 for more information or to register. Also put this info in the calendar, it will be held at Community Art Center 86 S. Main, Room E in St. George, Utah.