Issue 6.14
Choosing a funeral home is something many of us avoid until the need arises because it touches on a subject with which we’re not entirely comfortable. But, like choosing a doctor or a dentist, it’s actually a decision that, the more informed and prepared we are, the more likely it is to ensure a meaningful experience.
Becoming better informed now will make decision-making easier when the time comes. Make sure that the funeral home you are considering is licensed and have a good reputation in the community. Ask family and friends for advice, consult a spiritual advisor, ask the elder care organizations for recommendations – all of these people have had their own experiences and can help you narrow your list and make a better choice for you and your family.
Don’t be afraid to visit funeral homes personally, and spend time with the funeral director to get a sense of what kinds of services they provide. Visiting the funeral home alone can help you assess their level of commitment to your care. Funeral directors serve as an important resource in the community, and can help you plan a service that is meaningful and memorable. They understand all the decisions to be made when planning a funeral, and can guide you through every step of the process. The cost is only one of the many options to consider. The reputation of an establish firm along with their investment in your community can also give you confidence.
What’s important is that you find a funeral home you trust and with which you can establish a comfortable relationship. Today’s funeral director offers a variety of options to meet your financial needs and wishes. Families should discuss all options with their funeral director when making arrangements and the best time to do this is before you actually need the funeral director’s services. Being prepared and planning in advance means you can avoid making decisions in the stressful time immediately following a death. Metcalf Mortuary is ready to help you navigate the process, no matter what circumstances you find yourself in, and will work with you to plan a service that is meaningful to you and your loved ones.
Ron Metcalf is the Personal Funeral Director at Metcalf Mortuary,300 W. St. George Blvd ,St. George and can be reached at 435-673-4221.