Issue 35.13
As a funeral director, I have heard many people comment, “I want my family to have a party when I die!” No matter how many times I hear this statement, my first response is always the same. What? You want them to have a party? The death of a loved one is generally an emotionally devastating time and most family and friends don’t feel like partying after a person has passed on; however, I believe the spirit behind the statement is genuine and worth exploring.
It is my opinion that most people who make this kind of statement really just wish for their family and friends to come together, remember the good times, forget the tough times, and move forward without regrets. They hope their loved ones will celebrate their life and dwell on the positive. Unfortunately, there is no wave of a magical wand that can eliminate the pain and grief associated with death. But there is a pathway to navigate the sadness – a carefully planned funeral or memorial service. In my profession, I have helped families plan many different types of funerals – some are very somber and formal, some are uplifting, and others are very light and humorous. It is my job as a funeral director to assist in creating services that are individual and meaningful. These types of services offer hope and comfort and help guide loved ones through the difficult days ahead. When a service is personal and unique to the deceased, it is almost possible to have a “party.”
We at SereniCare Funeral Home are available to assist you in the funeral planning process. Whether you need to plan a service for a loved one or would like to pre-plan for yourself, we are here to help you choose from the many options available, outline costs, and make any necessary recommendations. We offer a free, no-obligation planning guide.
Contact us today at (435) 986-2085, or stop by our office just off Riverside Drive at 1316 S. 400 E., St. George, UT, www.serenicareofstgeorge.com.